but also, in response to the running around/flirting thing. i have been thinking about this recently and it appears other people have been too.
well first off..you had fun. that is the most important part. i know for me, it's really hard for me to sit still. i have to be wandering around or else i feel like i am missing something. sometimes i get the chance to sit down and really talk with people at the club, but it's very rare. however, that doesn't mean i don't love sitting down and talking with people. it's just, for me, the club is a hard place to do. it's like a sensory overload there. so many people that i love seeing, it's hard for me to stay in one place.
i guess what i am trying to say, is that i think it's ok to be running around and having fun. that's part of being social and it doesn't make you shallow at all. maybe if that's all a person ever did, then maybe one might question it.
the most important point is that you had a good time. from my experience, usually people like to see their friends having a good time. and if anyone ever came up to you and asked you to talk seriously, more than likely you would have been there for them.
sometimes i how people perceive me at the club. cloei pointed out to me one time that people rarely see me outside of the club, so people don't often get to sit down and talk to me. i am alwas trapped with my pown thoughts, so i forget other people dont see what goes on inside my head too.
anyway, i am rambling a bit and should probably continue these thoughts in my own journal. ;)
but to sum it up, you had fun, you enjoyed yourself, and if it made you happy, then great. i dont think anyone was upset to see you so cheerful. ;) *hugs*
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but also, in response to the running around/flirting thing. i have been thinking about this recently and it appears other people have been too.
well first off..you had fun. that is the most important part. i know for me, it's really hard for me to sit still. i have to be wandering around or else i feel like i am missing something. sometimes i get the chance to sit down and really talk with people at the club, but it's very rare. however, that doesn't mean i don't love sitting down and talking with people. it's just, for me, the club is a hard place to do. it's like a sensory overload there. so many people that i love seeing, it's hard for me to stay in one place.
i guess what i am trying to say, is that i think it's ok to be running around and having fun. that's part of being social and it doesn't make you shallow at all. maybe if that's all a person ever did, then maybe one might question it.
the most important point is that you had a good time. from my experience, usually people like to see their friends having a good time. and if anyone ever came up to you and asked you to talk seriously, more than likely you would have been there for them.
sometimes i how people perceive me at the club. cloei pointed out to me one time that people rarely see me outside of the club, so people don't often get to sit down and talk to me. i am alwas trapped with my pown thoughts, so i forget other people dont see what goes on inside my head too.
anyway, i am rambling a bit and should probably continue these thoughts in my own journal. ;)
but to sum it up, you had fun, you enjoyed yourself, and if it made you happy, then great. i dont think anyone was upset to see you so cheerful. ;)
*hugs*